in general just go through the #bi tag on @bifey and @biexboyfriend‘s blogs as well as posts from @mediumkravitz and @verilybitchie whose essays were included above, feel free to add on if you feel you see anything else relevant from trans/nb bisexuals specifically
im not interested in hearing about how you didnt bother reading anything/taking anything in bad faith based on whatever.
and remember!
I’m Pan, and Bi and Pan are very different
Bi: attraction to 2 or more distinct genders
Pan: attraction to the person rather than the gender…
For me, attraction has always been beyond the gender, it’s more of a “if I’m attracted then why should gender matter within the realms of attraction” rather than “I’m attracted to this person because of their gender”
So Bi ≠ Pan
clearly you haven’t read any of this because people have been defining their bisexuality as attraction regardless of gender for decades and the 2 or more definition is incredibly recent, like I could point to at least 2 different things on here that could have told you that but you just felt like parroting the same thing I’ve seen over and over like it was supposed to mean literally anything, read something for once in your life
You’ll get more chances. At friendships. At relationships. At job/school related progress. At following your dreams. At chasing your passions. It’s not now or never. There will always be other chances and other opportunities.
I am so wary of any take, no matter how well intentioned, that places good queers (diverse, non sexual, love, don’t look explicitly gay) against bad queers (overly sexual and vain obviously gay men)
like idk who those anime boys are but the “corporate stereotypical gay” is like,,, an actual gay person, enjoying themselves at pride
